Women In Islam
The Prophet said
that women totally dominate men of intellect and Possessors of Hearts,
But ignorant men dominate women, for they are shackled by the ferocity
of animals.They have no kindness, gentleness, or love, since animality
dominates their nature. Love and kindness are human attributes, anger
and sensuality belong to the animals.
Imam Musa Ibni
Ja'far narrated from his fathers, from the holy prophet (pbuh), who
said: "However much the faith of a man increases, his regard for women
increases."
Many of the Muslim
countries which claim to practice Islam are treating women as inferiors
and subjugating them, and unfortunately, many women accept this
situation, thinking that it's what Islam advocates. However, most of
this degradation, humiliation, and poor treatment towards women in these
"Islamic" countries comes not from the Quran, but from the desertion of
the Quran.
Take Afghanistan,
for example one of the least powerful countries. The Taliban are
oppressing the people as well as the religion. They treat women as such
inferiors, to the point that they aren't even allowed to leave their
houses, nor receive any education whatsoever, unless it's in her house,
taught by a woman. Not to mention that instead of creating unity in the
Muslim ummah, they kill their fellow Muslims and claim that it's the
right "Islamic way".
What kind of
mentality is this, the mentality of the ancient Arabs who used to bury
their children as infants if they were girls because they were ashamed
of them?? Or..the mentality of the Europeans centuries ago who thought
of women as such subordinates that they weren't even human?? That they
had no souls and were basically nothing..like animals?? In Islam, women
have rights. Rights that some that
women here in
America didn't have until not long ago. Although in the middle eastern
countries, the governments distort or even disregard these laws,
according to true Islamic law, a woman has always had the right to earn
an education, to obtain inheritance, to earn money and keep it to
herself, to own property, and to contract. In Islam, marriage does not
affect a woman's legal status, herproperty, her earnings, or even her
name! And she is entitled to compensation just as a man is. Look at
America. Women here couldn't even vote until about 1920. In England,
just over a hundred years ago in 1850, women finally earned the right to
own property. In 1857, they were given the right to divorce. We've
been able to do all this for 1400 years! And we're the old-fashioned,
oppressed ones?
The Prophet (S)
has been narrated to have said, "Fatima is a part of me. Whoever upsets
her has surely upset me, and whoever upsets me has upset Allah." I can
go on all day and bore you all to death getting into to the deep meaning
of this hadith, so I won't. Anyway, what I'm trying to say is, when the
Prophet mentioned this hadith, he was displaying his deep respect for
Fatima (A), to the point that whoever hurts her, hurts Allah. He didn't
say this hadith about a man, but a woman,which means that a woman can
have a high status in Islam, not based upon her gender, but based upon
her iman and taqwaa. Inna akramakum inda Allahi atqaakum
The best of you in the eyes of Allah is the most pious. Piety has
absolutely nothing to do with gender. It also says in the Quran: Yaa
ayyuhal ladhina aamanu ati'u Allaha wa atee'ulrasool. What does this
mean?? It means obey Allah, obey rasool Allah what were the traditions
of rasool Allah (S) concerning women? Take his daughter, Fatimatul
Zahra' (AS). He had utmost respect for her, to the degree that when
she walked into a room, he would stand up for her as a show of respect.
He would kiss her hand and offer his seat to her--a woman!!
And who was he??
He wasn't just any ordinary man--he was the Prophet of Allah! Rasool
Allah! Habib Allah..standing up for a woman? A young woman?? His
daughter?? What does this mean? Think about it. The Prophet (S)
possessed great love and deep respect for his daughter. And his love
for Fatima came deep down from his heart. As did his truthful actions
and sayings. His attitude towards women wasn't just something he just
did or said...to look good...or maybe to get people off his back. No. He
meant it. He meant everything he said. And everything he said was from
Allah (SWT). Wa laa yantiqu an il hawaa. And he does not speak of his
own desire. Also, when he showed such great respect for women, he
wasn't just doing it for himself. He was also doing it to set an
example for others. Allah mentions in the Quran that prophet Mohammed
(S) is an example for everyone. Wa inna lakum fi rasool illahi uswatun
hasanatun. And there is a great example for you in rasool Allah. He
also praises the conduct of the Prophet (S), saying wa innaka la 'alaa
khuluqin adhim. And you are of sublime morals. Now if the Prophet's
respect for women was so profound, and we're to take him as an example,
shouldn't we be the same way?
Now unfortunately,
this is not the way people see things. Just as Islam is so stereotyped
in this society, the status of women in Islam is one of the most
extremely misunderstood and incorrectly portrayed things in the western
world. Why is Islam looked at as a religion that oppresses women so
much? Well, think about it. Look at, as a mere example, the movie Not
without My Daughter. So many false depictions were made of women in
Islamic countries. Plus, in many so-called Islamic countries,
women aren't
treated according to their God-given rights. But this isn't the fault
of the Islamic Ideology. It's the fault of the misapplication or
sometimes even outright denial of the ideologies in these societies.
Much of the practices and laws in "Islamic" countries have deviated
from, or are totally unrelated to the origins of Islam. Instead, a lot
of these practices are based on cultural and traditional customs.
Look at Saudi
Arabia. Women aren't even allowed to drive in that country..What kind
of rule is that?! Then people go and look at the distorted rules that
the government created, and think that that's the way Islam wants
governments to be. And what can we tell them? Saudi Arabia is supposed
to derive it's law from Islamic legislation, but it's all from the Saudi
monarchy. Also, in some supposedly Islamic countries, many civil laws
that were imposed during European colonization remain. Take Egypt, for
example. Many of the civil law that legislates personal and family
matters is
directly based on old French law. As a result, an Egyptian man can
divorce his wife much, much easier than she can divorce him. Often,
laws in middle eastern countries, which are legislated by men, only take
bits and pieces of Islamic law, and combine them with concocted rules
based upon some cultural and foreign practices.
Another common
misconception when it comes to equality in Islam is that women aren't
treated as well as men because they don't inherit as much money as men
do, or that they're looked down upon because they don't receive custody
of their children after a divorce. However, if you look beyond the
surface level of these laws, you'll see that they're actually very
logical, and make a of of sense. The reason the man receives custody of
his children is because men usually get paid better than women, and can
support their
children better. Also, men are usually stronger and stricter when it
comed to disciplining and laying down the rules for their children. The
reason a woman receives one-third of the inheritance that a man does, is
because, while men are required to pay for all of the expenses, and
support everyone in their families, including their wives, women don't
have to pay for anything according to Islamic law. Even if a
women works,
she still isn't required to pay for anyone. She can keep the money she
has or earns all to herself if she so wishes. Plus, if her husband i s
the one to pass away, she still receives less inheritance because she
isn't expected to pay for her children; her brother in laws are. Now
don't you think it would be unfair of women did receive as much
inheritance money as men?
Another reason
people don't accept the idea that men and women are equal is because
they are under the impression that equality means having the exact same
roles or functions. They seem to overlook the fact that women have
specific roles, and men have specific roles, and if they're carried out
correctly, and we all work together in acheiving our particular jobs, we
can attain harmony and completeness in life, and only under these
conditions will it be possible to have a smooth-running society. The
Qur'an revived the rights of woman as a human being and man's partner in
humanity and human
rights, but did
not overlook her womanhood or man's manhood. In other words, the Qur'an
did not overlook woman's nature. Others are under the impression that
the only reason women exist is to benefit men. Islam does not say any
such thing. It has stated the purpose of Creation in clear terms. It
expressly says that the earth, the heavens, the air, the clouds, the
plants and the animals, all have been created for the sake of mankind.
It does not say that woman has been created for the sake of man.
According to it, both man and woman have been created for the sake of
each other. The Qur'an says: They (women) are raiment (comfort,
embellishment and protection) for you, and you (men) are raiment for
them. (Surat al-Baqarah: 2 : 187).
In the Quran, no
difference is made between the sexes in relation to God. "For men who
submit and women who submit, for believing men and believing women, for
devout men and devout women, for steadfast men and steadfast women, for
humble men and humble women...." Allah doesn't only talk about men, nor
does he only talk about women. In the eyes of Allah, we are all
equal. So if God, who created us, who gave us life, who provided us
with all that we have, sees mankind equally, why can't we?
Wa assalaamu
alaikum wa rahmat Allah wa barakatuh |